today go gym lo ,no pics ppl haaahass >.< ,,
injured my hand ,
no one knows lorhs ,
just 'ren' dao die ,
>.<
want cry siahhhs ,
tomorrow got sports extravaganza haaahs ?!?!!
i dont want run ,
should pei szemin to stay there sit lo ,
feel like wearing slippers instead of shoes 0.0 ,,
just jiu damn sad de lahs ,
these feel days tio mooodswings ,
duno why ,
just feel sad ,
pretend to be happy ?
sadsadsad .
enjoyed YTD (: ,,
onli thing tht made me happy these few days ,
me l0ves u lahh xinyi :) ,
then haiis dont talk bout sadsad things :)
woi the other 3 PEOPLE ,
post more cannns ?!?!?!?!??!!
walaooos .
this is like my personal blog ?
no one posting de ,
haaahs -.-
SZEMIN get well soon ,
szemin ahhhs !
leg like pig throtters liddat hahas ,
should pei her lorhs .
me and she got heart-to-heart talk just now ,
at the staircase there ,
while the others were busy playing lols ,
enjoyed dao our heart-to-heart-talk ,
hopes we can have more of it :) ,
got alot things to say out ,
but jiu no one to say to -.-
sad die ,
im l0st ,
-.- ,
ANWS ppl ,
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to taggs .
follow vanessa de ,
advertise blog ,
although i post more at here instead of there haahs ??!!??
see i so TX ,
unlike vanessa and the others ,
neh save this blog de haahs ,
the innocent holy clever de me haahs .
i will post something from the popular book ahhs wait i type out slowly hahas ,
POISON 1
many parents are using labelling, which is killing their childrens self esteem . for instance , why are you so slow ? she is so lazy . whats wrong with you ? every time you use a label that hurts ur child self esteem , you are actually motivating him to reinforce that particular negative trait , for instamce , if you ask ur child , why are you so lazy ? often enough , your child will grow to believe that he is lazy and being lazy is his nature...
THIS IS LIKE SO DAMN TRUE CANNNS .
my parents always say i lazy ..
now i keep say that ,
whenever my parents say dont be so lazy ,
i will tell them ,
i thought u say i very lazy de ,
i am lazy what ,
dont need to keep reminding me ,
LOLS ?!?!?!? >.<
POISON 2
Why are you not like your brother ? he is so much brighter then you , the moment you compare , you are sowing the seed of inferiority,
how can we compare when each of us is unique ? we possess unique strengths and talents , as well as areas of improvement. we all learn differently , in terms of molality or pace. our interests and aspirations are all different . when we compare, we become less , and in the process , we feel more inferior. its the ame when children are compared to other children or parents themselves. the result is feeling that we will never be good enough. how can we develop healthy self esteem and a sense of security when we constantly feel inadequate?
as usual , this is real again,
my parents keep comparing me with my brother and cousins .
keep saying they clever and im stupid ,
then i feel so inferior that they say me like that ,,
>.<
show this to your parents when they sayy uu OKKKKKS :)
POISON 3
Although many parents complain about their childrens misbehavious , they dont necessarily understand that a misbehaving child is a discouraged child. a misbehaving or difficult child is usually the one who sees himself or herself as being inferior . it is a sad reality that some parents dont like themselves.and they resort to venting their frustration or inadequatecy onto their children, picking them for their mistakes , shortcomings , and deficiencies. No matter how well their child has done or how much their child has improved , the progress is never up to the parents expectations , no wonder their child lacks self esteem , their parents keep drawing the water out through self esteem killers like put downs criticism and judgement . ironically , these parents complain that their child needs to improve in terms of character , confidence , and behaviour.
as usual ,
i dont understand this >.<
maybe some clever ppl will understand -.- ,
i dont lorhhs .
haaahs ppl there is some typo mistakes for i look at the book all the time then never look at keyboard then type de ,
ppl please read the top de lorhs .
i spend damn much effort on it >.< ..
from popular book ,
CHW ,
IF U CAN SEE THIS ,
i know that u are seeing this ,
its not that or anything,
if u still love me ,
let me go ok ?
i feel so scared when im with you ,
i dont feel secure or anything ,
ur frightening me ,
if u realli want me to be happy ,
stop smsing me ,
stop it ,
im scared ok ,
if u love me ,
stop making me scared .
stop it ,
realli and truly ,
STOP IT ?
please ?
dont sms me le ,
you are scaring me with your messages .
u love me ,
jiu stop ,
you make me cant sleep every night whenever i receive ur message ,
became u scare me so much ,
so please ,
stop it ,,
if u see this ,
please stop ,
let me go ok ?
-PeiYu
woi lousy de other 3 toiletbowl ,
please go post lehhhs >.< .